In Tibet, many people manage to live a healthy and happy life for a very long time. And they believe compassion is the main reason behind this longevity.
when we have hate, anger, unforgiveness, and other negative emotions, it leads to an unhappy life.
when we release all negative emotions and cultivate love and compassion for each and every being, it leads to magical life.
Most of us do not come out of these emotions. But believe you are doing this for yourself. You letting your ego create a story in your mind and harm you. it is not affecting the person who you think is the reason for your bad experiences.
If you really want to come out and cultivate compassion in your life then meditation can help you. Meditation detaches you from ego and connects you with the inner self, which is pure love.
Remember, this life is only an experience and we are here on this planet to live a bigger life through love and compassion, not as a victim crying for everything.
At the end of post you will find a link to loving kindness meditation