Parenting Tips : How You Can Raise Happy Kids and Make Them Superhuman
These parenting tips will help you to understand how a children’s mind works, and how you can fill it with good information and emotions.
I believe parenting is the only thing that can change this world more powerfully for the good.
We put efforts to change children’s behavior when they are grown up. But that’s not the right time to change. Because now they are just reacting to the information and beliefs which they have been filled with, in their early childhood when they were below the age of 12.
Changes after 12 years are also possible but it will take a lot of effort because now they have to go beyond the old self and create a new identity. And believe me, that takes a lot.
People go through a very dark time to come out of childhood traumas.
You will see many people living in anxiety and depression for years just because of the environment their parents raised them in.
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Why Parenting Is One of the Most Important Things?
Children’s conscious or analytical mind is fully developed only when they are around 12 years old.
From the age of 2 to 6, children mostly live in very low brainwave frequencies called Theta & Delta.
This is a highly suggestible state. In this state, children are in full download mode. They accept and store whatever is told or shown to them. All information goes directly into their subconscious mind because there is no analytical mind to analyze and reject the incoming information.
Imagine what will happen to a child if at this age he has alcoholic or abusing parents fighting in front of him/her.
From 6-12, a child starts to develop a conscious mind but still, they are highly suggestible because the analytical mind is under development(Reference).
So be conscious of every word you say in front of a child who is below 12 years. Be conscious of the behavior you are showing to a child when they are below 12. Remember they are downloading everything in their subconscious mind and this will become the way of living for them in the future.
An Example of Negative Parenting
Imagine if someone has alcoholic or abusive parents. They just keep fighting and create an environment of negativity. They are frustrated with their own life and now they are transferring that frustration to their child.
This act will fill their children with shame, fear, and all kinds of negativity.
When this child is grown up he will live with these feelings and it will cost him a lot to come out of these emotions.
They don’t feel any connection with anyone because they are not finding one with themselves.
This is the story of many children in our society. Many of them come out but after facing a lot of suffering and dark times.
But many of them give up and choose a negative way to live life.
But change is always possible. If any child is in the above situation still they can change their lives. We can not change what has happened but we have a choice to design the new future. It will not be easy but it is possible. We are given the power to release the old self and create a new identity.
The Power of Human Mind
The human mind is very powerful. When it is trained properly, it can perform miracles. Below are two stories that can show you the power of the human mind.
- Napoleon Hill’s Son Story: Napoleon Hill in his best-selling book “Think and Grow Rich” explains the story of his deaf son. His son was born without hearing instruments. But with the burning desire, faith and proper mental suggestions his son was able to hear properly when he grew up.
- Sixth Sense: Jose Silva is the founder of the Silva mind control method and the writer of the popular book “The Silva Mind Control Method“. Jose Silva was a radio mechanic and he knew that, like an electrical circuit, if we can reduce the resistance in the human brain, it can work powerfully. He started working on these ideas and found some techniques to access the deeper levels of mind. Generally, we call these deeper levels alpha and theta states. He started experimenting with these techniques on his children. He found that in these states his children are learning things very fast. He asks something and his children answer the question from a deeper state.
But he became more surprised when his children were answering even before asking the question. They were able to read his mind in these states.
With these examples, you can see how powerful a mind can be if trained in a positive way. And how bad it can be if programmed in a negative way.
Parenting Tips : How to Raise Happy Kids
Below are few parenting tips that can help you to create a bright future for your children:
1. Positive Affirmations for Parents
To program a child’s mind positively you need to think beyond your old self and consciously remind yourself about this process of change.
For that, you can write or print some affirmations for yourself. And read them twice a day.
Below are a few examples of affirmations for parents. You can create your affirmations based on your situation.
- I love my children
- I know children at an early age do not analyze the information and behavior coming from their surroundings, and they store it directly in their subconscious mind. This is the way nature has created them so they can learn fast.
- I know the information and behavior I will fill in my children’s minds at an early age, It will become a way of living for them when they are grown up.
- I will only speak positively in front of my child
- I will only show positive behavior in front of my child
- I will only express positive feelings in front of my children
- I will never do any act that will fill my children with any kind of negativity, or any negative emotion.
- I know if children are filled with negative information and emotions in childhood, it becomes emotionally very painful for them in their future. Which will affect all areas of their lives.
- I promise I will raise my children with love, respect, and positivity
- I will show respect to my family and my children
- I will create an environment of love and positivity in my family
2. Positive Affirmations for Kids
Remember, you have to speak only positive things in front of your children.
Apart from this you can write or print some affirmations for the kids. Read these affirmations to your kids a few times a day. It will be better if your kids repeat the affirmations after you.
If you are just saying an affirmation to your kids, you can speak as a second person like “You are a good person.” But when your children are repeating the affirmation after you then you can say as a first-person like “I am a good person” and then ask your children to repeat.
No matter what your situation is right now you have to speak positively to your children.
Because a positive mind can easily achieve riches and a good life, whereas a negative mind struggles to manage good things in life.
You just have to make your children positive, everything else will be taken care of automatically.
You can write your own affirmations or you can get some online.
Few examples of the affirmations for the kids:
- I love you
- You are amazing
- You are very intelligent
- You are a good person
- You will become rich
- You are a good leader
- This life is beautiful, easy and fun
- You will live a beautiful life
- You are loved
- You are enough
- You will respect and help others
- You are kind
- You are brave
- Earning money is very easy
- You will contribute to make this planet a better place
- You feel love and compassion for all human beings
- You feel love for the natures and the animals
- You are happy
- You are full of love and joy
- You are always positive
3. Say No To Negative Media
Please stop watching anything that is filling you with negativity. Stop watching the news and negative media in front of your children.
Negative media and information are not only dangerous for kids but also for grown-ups.
I have seen many people just keep the news channels open for hours and let the poisonous debates ruin their and their family’s minds.
If you want to capture some important updates, choose one reliable news channel(Which only shows news as it is without spicing it up with more negativity) and watch it only for 20-30 min a day when your children are not around.
Not only news channels but block other sources also which are filling you with negativity.
If you see any youtube channel or other source that is spreading any kind of negativity and affecting you, block it now.
If you are habitual of watching such information and you feel satisfied after watching these hate debates or information, it means your ego is controlling you. It will not harm anyone else but only you. So be greater than your ego and stop it now.
If you are controlled by the ego and you are letting the negative emotions control you, then you will feel bad when you will be leaving this world.
But at the same time if you choose the path of love and compassion you will feel more satisfied when leaving this world.
Instead, watch informative content, comedy, and things that make you happy.
Also, block the people, pages, posts, and groups on other social media platforms which are creating any kind of negativity.
Information and Emotions Can Heal or Destroy:
In Tibet in India, you can find many old people who are healthy and active even after 90 years. There are many reasons for their health and longevity. But one of them I feel is they never watched TV and they never had access to any digital information. They were living happily in their spaces with whatever they had.
There was no one to tell or show them that they are poor. There was no one to tell them that this thing will make you fat or ill. There was no one to tell them that this thing has this much fat and this much calorie.
Some of them smoked or took other substances their entire lives, but still they are healthy. I am not promoting these things but it’s just an example that shows, more than these substances, information is killing people.
Most diseases are the expression of negative emotions we are holding inside us. To understand this in depth I will suggest you read about Dr. Joe Dispenza’s work or you can watch his testimonials on youtube.
By using Dr. Joe techniques and meditations people are able to release the emotions they have been holding for a long time. And once they release these emotions their body is healed very fast.
There are many other examples which show that our body is controlled by our mind.
One more example is this is the book “Dying to Be Me” by Anita Moorjani. This book is the real story about her life.
4. Divine Space: Fill Your House With Positivity
Fill your house with positivity. Fill it with positive posters , affirmations, sculpture and things.
Make your home look more natural. When you have positive frames, affirmations and things all around your house, it will help you to stay in a positive mood. Also it will affect the subconscious mind of your family positively.
5. Books and Positive Videos
Books are life changing. Keep all good books in your house. Read these books , it will help you and your family a lot.
A book is not a small thing, it’s the whole life experience of someone.
Form a habit of reading books in your children from an early age.
Also, Keep a list of good informative videos and documentaries, and watch them from time to time. It will shift your old thinking process.
6. Positive Habits Formations
Start forming all kinds of positive habits in your children. For examples:
- Meditation: If you know meditation you can control your mind even in difficult situations. It will keep you away from anxiety. Do daily meditation and form a habit in your children too. There are many children’s meditations out there which you can give a try. Give 15 min to meditation everyday, believe me it will change a lot.
- When you are outside and you see someone needy, give something to that person , do it more in front of your children. Or if possible, give some money or stuff to your children and ask them to give it to a needy person. Teach them to always help people in need. It will form a habit of giving in your child. You do not need to be rich to help someone, you can give a small part of whatever you have. Trust in nature It will bless you with more
- Help and feed animals. Animals are part of this planet and we can not be alive without them. We need to help them, love them. Feed and love the animals whenever you have a chance and request your kids to do the same. Create a feeling of love in them for the nature and animals
- Put garbage in the bins. When you see some garbage scattered outside somewhere, put it in the garbage bin and also ask your children to do that. Never force your children to do something, instead do it first and inspire them to do this. Your job is to create inspiration in them with your act and your words which will inspire your child to do good for people, nature , animals and this planet.
- Plant trees with your children. Develop a feeling of love inside them for the nature and this planet
These are just a few examples. You can find more things and apply them.
7. Make Your Children Creative and Business Minded
Make your child creative. Give them a business mind. Help them to act on the ideas. Do not train them to be a slave of a salary cheque throughout their life.
Inspire them to do the side hustle. Teach them to earn money from multiple sources.
Job is not bad but it alone will never give you financial freedom and security. If you are doing a job because it’s your passion then it’s good but if you are doing it just for a paycheque it’s bad. Because working for a paycheck is stressful and it can affect your mental and physical health with age. Because you are working on something that you do not want to do.
Thousands of people are doing side hustles today and living a life of freedom. Start searching for things that can be done as a side hustle and start it with your child, based on the interest of your children.
Once they work on these things they will develop a business mind and in the future, they will have the courage to act on their ideas and intuition.
Even if they join a job they will have a mindset to work on additional things which will give them freedom and security.
Some examples:
- If your child like writing ideas you can make a blog for them
- If they love expressing something create a YouTube channel for them and help them grow
Or whatever interest they have, find something in that field and help your children to implement the ideas they have.
Please read “Rich Dad Poor Dad” by Robert T. Kiyosaki. It will help you to make your child creative and business-minded.
8. Have Pets
If your surroundings allow you , you can have pets. Pets are beautiful and they create an environment of happiness in the family.
Final Thoughts on Parenting Tips
I believe parenting alone can make a big difference in this world. It can reduce negativity. It can reduce crime rates. It can help raise happy and healthy childs.
It can bring more goodness and kindness in this world.
I believe these things must be taught in all the schools. There should be a seperate book on this topic for the parents and children both.
Because everybody does not know about this. To spread this idea a booklet can be created by all governments and should be provided to all students and their parents.
This booklet will inform the parents about the working of human minds and how they can give a good life to their childrens by forming positive beliefs in them. This booklet will contain the affirmations for parents and childrens both. I believe this book can act as “The book of life” for new generations.
In the future when I am capable of doing this, I will surely act on this idea from my side and will provide this book and this idea to the people as much as I can.
If you have read till here and you think this can change the world, Please share this idea with the people around you
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