As a human, we have free will to choose. If we want to choose something using our will, no external power will interfere in our choosing.Â
The problem is, all the thoughts and emotions running inside us are acting as our free will.Â
So if we are holding unforgiveness, anger, and resentment inside us, we will not recognize the messages from our higher self.
You need to be willing to forgive everyone including yourself and your past.Â
You just need to set an intention that you want to release all these negative emotions you are holding inside for a long time. Higher power will take care of rest and set you free.
There are many methods you can use to set an intention, for example, a powerful willingness to change, affirmations, inner child healing, Sedona method, etc.Â
There are many methods you can use, use anyone but set yourself completely free then only you can experience the beauty of this life.